10 Reasons Why Married Women Cheat

These are the reasons why Married Women Cheat on their Husband’s
Some women have affairs for primarily sexual reasons

1. Her husband has lost interest in having sex with her;

2. She’s bored sexually and her husband isn’t adventurous enough;

3. Her husband is a sexual bully and she’s found a man who is tender and loving;

4. Her husband is too soft a lover and she’s found a ‘bad boy’;

5. She loves her husband but has lost interest in him sexually;

6. Her husband doesn’t make her feel sexy and her lover does.

7. She’s stressed and overwhelmed and the affair is a bubble of peace;

8. Her husband is critical and hurtful, and her lover is kind and loving;

9. Her life is boring and the affair makes it more stimulating;

10. Her husband is distant and her lover provides the intimacy she craves.

No doubt there are many more reasons – as many reasons as there are adulterous women!

What’s the common thread here? She’s unhappy. She’s either unhappy in her relationship, or she’s unhappy with her life and her relationship is not supporting her to address her unhappiness.

So, if you want to move on from an affair then you need to address the root cause of the unhappiness and turn that around.

That will undoubtedly include personal issues, relationship issues and lifestyle issues. Without addressing those underlying causes, no matter how remorseful she might be, if the problem is still there, then there’s a risk she’ll do it again (or do something else damaging such as become an alcoholic or overeat.)

Of course, if the husband knows, you need to address his hurt. He has been betrayed and trust is gone. It can seem impossible to move on from that. But you can, if the remorse is there and the underlying issues are addressed.